The Covid-19
epidemic has affected everyone during 2020. Many have seen
family members fall ill and in some cases, die from this insidious virus.
Others have lost jobs and are suffering financial hardship through no fault of
their own. Even if your family wasn’t as direly impacted, no one has gotten
away unscathed. Graduations, baptisms, showers and weddings cancelled, dreams
put on hold. We’re no longer allowed to play proper respect at funerals. Schools
have been closed with the responsibility for education thrust upon parents.
Parks, playgrounds, pools, amusements, theaters, and sports facilities
shuttered. We haven’t been allowed to meet a friend for lunch, get a haircut,
or attend our place of worship. I am not implying the shutdown wasn’t
necessary, especially since my husband and I are “of a certain age” with
serious medical conditions. But now that restrictions are lifting, I’ve come to
three observations about American personalities.
We are impatient by nature. We can follow the rules for only a
certain length of time. After that we want everything to go back to normal,
myself included. We might be able to survive three months without a haircut,
but not six. My British friends are still under lock-down and thriving better
than my neighbors here. A summer without block parties? A fall without
football? No hayrides, no Christmas caroling, no taking grandkids to see Santa
at the mall? Enough is enough.
We don’t mind suggestions, but please
don’t tell us what to do. We are far more independent than the rest of the world. If you observed
the streets of Paris or Rome after lockdown was imposed, not a “creature was
stirring.” Not the case in many parts of the US.
We don’t like living with uncertainty. We want definite answers and solutions
to our problems. We don’t like all these ideas being tossed around regarding
treatments or possible vaccines. Are masks good or bad or somewhere in-between?
Everyone has an opinion but no one seems to have an answer.
God has the
answer. God knows how this will play out and asks only that we trust Him and be
patient. Not just for the month or June or the rest of summer, but until we feel
safe again. And I know just how hard that can be.
These were
my opinions. Please leave me a comment with yours. You will be entered in a drawing for a copy
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