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Wednesday, April 15, 2026

Mothers and Daughters


Sharon Dunn here. One of the themes of my new Love Inspired book that comes out at the end of April, Tracking the Taken Child, is the bond between mother and daughter. Writing this book made me think about my own mother Mary Ellen, so I dedicated the book to her. My mother won't see the dedication. In fact, by the time my first book was published, she had already died from cancer in her early fifties. And yet, even after all these years, I feel the bond between us, that tug of emotion. 

Like all people my mother was a collection of contradictions. My mother loved nature and working in her garden. She also loved children. She had seven of them and wanted to adopt more when the doctor told her another birth would be too dangerous. Despite my father's alcoholism, I think my mother worked hard to give us a save, secure childhood. She read me stories, taught me how to sew and we built a dollhouse together. The dollhouse has long since been lost, but I still have the furniture for it. My mother could be my greatest cheerleader but also a critical remark from her could hurt. I feel deep sorrow that she didn't get to see that I became a published author. She would have been proud. I wish too that she could have lived to be a part of my children's lives. She would have been a wonderful grandmother. My mother gave me many gifts. I know that I learned money management and how to be frugal from her. I think my own connection to nature where I sense God's presence the most was through the example she set. I don't think even death can break the mother daughter bond. 

When you think of your mother, what comes to mind? I'd love to hear about who your mom was to you. Leave a comment with your email address, I'll be giving away five copies of Tracking the Taken Child (USA only).   

 


23 comments:

  1. Hi, Sharon. It's always good to hear from you, and I enjoyed reading about your relationship w your Mom. Since I grew up in Paraguay--which I've shared w you before, but now we've lived in Deer Lodge, MT for many years, where my husband is a minister--my parents, who were missionaries in Paraguay for 36 years, really had a high influence in my life, especially my Mom. She had high ideals; strong biblical convictions; was a faithful soul-winner; and had many interests: sewing clothes; flowering plants; visiting with, and helping others; and was an encourager, especially in my own artwork. I've included her a number of times in my poetry as well. As always, I enjoy your books, and would love to win a print copy! Praying for you! God bless! Mailing address: Lual Krautter, 712 Carter St., Deer Lodge, MT 59722. Email: krautter62520AToutlookDOTcom

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  2. My mom was the one I strived to win approval from. It seldom happened but I kept trying. watts.vickie@gmail.com

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  3. My mother and I have been very close all our lives, if not physically, in heart. She supported and helped me all through my life. She is still alive at 85, and I live next door to her to help her. We've lost the rest of our immediate family, and life isn't easy. But we have the Lord and each other. We've been through so much together that we have a very close bond. I would love to read a book about a mother and daughter bond! LRStrong (at) yahoo

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  4. When I think of my mom I think of all the sacrifices she made for us when I was growing up. She always put her children above herself. She always tried to do her best for us. That influenced me to want to do the best for my children. cherierj(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  5. My mom is a strong survivor she has been through literal hell and self inflicted hell by way of drug addiction but she’s a survivor. She has always been there for me and my siblings even when she couldn’t mentally cope. & I know she would still be there for me as an adult if I needed her. Ty! Dreadrake1@gmail.com

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  6. My Mom could budget even with a third grade education..Bills were hard to meet sometimed but she was never late. jrs0350@yahoo.com

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  7. caring
    bn100candg at hotmail dot com

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  8. When I think of my mother, I think of her long showers! Two to three hours is the norm. :-) Doodlesink@hotmail.com

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  9. My mom and I are bot super close, but there are some things thay I greatly appreciate about her (and some I don't!) My mom's love language is making and serving food... and somehow that characteristic missed me! My whole life that I can remember, my mom has spent so much time in the kitchen, making meals, canning, providing for our family. My mom is also diligent. She probably works harder than anyone I know, even though she has had to slow down due to health issues recently. As a matter of fact, my 5 yr old daughter and I head up to WI in 2 weeks, for almost 2 weeks, to help my siblings move my parents to their new senior living duplex near my sister so she can be available to help them.

    My mom is also a teacher to the very core of her being. She LOVES to teach Sunday school and Junior Church. She homeschooled us some during our school years, substitute taught in public schools for years, and every time we visit, she is teaching my daughter different things. I also did not get that gift from her!😉

    While ghere are some things I would not want to inherit from my mom (like her judgmental attitude), she has a LOT of admirable qualities, and I am thankful for a mom like her!

    Heather Mitchell crhbmitchellfam@duck.com

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  10. My mom is always there when you need her.
    dianah7272@gmail.com

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  11. I know my mom helped shape my life. She was a very caring and giving person. Worked hard taking care of her family. jenningsask@verizon.net

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  12. The two words that come to mind first about my mom are caring and homemaker. Mom really cared about people, whether they were good friends or ones she just met. She was willing to help in any problem, share her knowledge of sewing and cooking and was always there first in a time of need. Living on an Army base, people came and went. She'd be there with a cake to welcome newcomers and willing to show them the ropes of the new base. She would sadly see friends depart and managed to keep up with so many of them through letters through the upcoming years. Mom was 100% homemaker. She made my clothes, she baked from scratch and could squeeze a dollar until it screamed for mercy. Being a military wife meant that in times of deployment she took on all the roles of mother and father and did it expertly. With dad gone for long periods of time - one almost 2 years in time of war, mom never let on her sad feelings or how hard it was. I can look back and wonder how did she do it. Mom loved being a wife, mother and grandmother. In my eyes, she was the best. It was sad to see the woman I love disappear in the grip of Alzheimer. While at times her care was extremely saddening and hard, it was easy at the same time because I could always remember the sacrifices she made of me and my brother for all those years prior. Mom will always have a special and big part of my heart.
    2clowns at arkansas dot net

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  13. When I think of my mom I think of the many surgeries that I have had. She is always there during my recovery periods. In fact I am going through recovery from my last surgery right now and she helps me get into bed every night. Thank you for the giveaway! deborahdumm(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  14. My mom was a stay at home mom and our dad worked. Our mom would always make sure that we all had what we needed. Both our parents made every Holiday and Birthday extra special for all 6 of us kids. I will always admire how our mom and dad got through with us 6 kids each with our own personalities. I will always remember when the first week of December came our mom would have each of us kiddos draw our foot on a cardboard because she was going to go talk to Santa, on Christmas Day we would all have an outfit beginning from our feet to our heads and of course gifts and stockings for each of us. When I got married and had my 2 children I lived in a different state and my dad would take my mom so that she would stay with us to help us out before and. after my children were born. My husband worked different shifts. Also when I had a couple of different surgeries my mom was there for me also. God Blessed me with the Best parents I could ever ask for. Have a great weekend. Thank you for the chance. Sincerely, Alicia Haney aliciabhaney(at)sbcglobal (dot ) net

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  15. My mom was a lot like yours. I did not want to disappoint her. She gave me a great example of a loving, Christian mom. We lost her to cancer just 2 months before my first child was born, 42 years ago. I still miss her every day, but I know where she is and I will see her again one day. I have two boys so I don't have that mother-daughter relationship in the mother role. I do have a very good relationship with my daughters-in-love and have a very young granddaughter.

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  16. Always thinking of others

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  17. My Mom was my best friend. I think of her everyday. I remember things that she instilled in me as well as hear myself sounding like her in conversations. She was a godly women who taught me to love and forgive others. dpruss@prodigy.net. God bless you.

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  18. patience and kindness

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  19. My Mom had me when she was very young then she became a nurse for 30 years

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  20. I'm lucky to still have my mom. She has always been an inspiration to me.

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  21. When I think of my mom, I think a friend and also a big sister. I still have my mom, and it's everything to be able to confide in her when I need someone to talk to or to ask advice about.

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