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Tuesday, May 23, 2023

The Thing About Pam



Pretty sure y’all know how I feel about true crime podcasts, so I thought I’d share one of my favorites with you. My friend Denise told me about it a while back, and it did not disappoint. It started with a murder, as most of them do, but by the final episode, my jaw was in my lap. Stories like this prove that the truth is often stranger than fiction.




The story began a few years back in Northern Missouri, which I’m starting to think is a hotbed for crime. Not only that, but real murderers tend to get away with a lot before being caught, since the police pin whatever happened on one suspect and fashion an investigation around their accused criminal without evidence or an alternative option. I could be totally off-base in my assumption, since the cases in which the correct person is for their crimes probably don’t get the same media attention as the others. Still, in the case of Betsy Faria’s murder, the police were convinced from the beginning that her husband, Russ, killed her despite lack of evidence or motive.

After a brief and surface level investigation, Russ was tried and convicted of his wife’s murder and sentenced to life in prison without parole. All the while, Betsy’s good friend, Pam Hupp, hovered around the proceedings, helping with the investigation and sharing Russ and Betsy’s marital issues with the police. Bless her heart.


Since I don’t want to spoil the story for those of you that may want to listen to the podcast or watch the very well-done Dateline miniseries, I won’t get into all the twists and turns that occurred as the truth unfolded. I will say that Pam wove an interesting web. Also, I was shocked to hear about a trial in which the prosecutor, judge, Pam, and most of the jury were old high school friends. All of it makes for a story that I was willing to sit in the driveway listening to even after my drive home from work ended.

I highly recommend The Thing About Pam both as a podcast and miniseries. If you haven’t listened or watched yet, do it! Let me know what you think.




What true crime podcast or show has left you in disbelief? I’d love to hear about it in the comments.

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10 comments:

  1. Truth really is stranger than fiction. Looking forward to listening to this to hear what/ how she did it. Thank you for sharing!

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    1. Kathleen Castner (I couldn’t figure out how to get rid of anonymous either.)

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  2. 😲 WOW! Definitely looking this up to listen to it. I wish you'd include a spoiler, though. And I love your, "Hot Bed of Crime" tag. LOL

    Mary Gessner

    I have to print my name in the comments because I can't figure out how to do it anywhere else. Sheesh...

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  3. I bought the book about her but have not watched this on Tv yet, Its on my list to watch. I love true crime anything.

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  4. I think I saw this on Dateline. And it was so interesting. I watch a lot of Dateline and 48 Hours...

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  5. can't think of any
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  6. I've never listened to one but this sounds good. I'll give it a try.

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  7. I don't usually watch them since I find them depressing. I have caught the occasional Dateline episodes and they are all hard to believe. It is hard to believe how truly evil some people are. cherierj(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  8. I think I’ve heard about the miniseries! So intriguing, I’ll have to check this out. Thank you for sharing!

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  9. I haven't listened to any but I'm definitely going to listen to this one.

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